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Humarey haan aksar yeh baat ma'aroof haikayshaadi ki pehli raat mubashrat honi zaroori hai warna valimaja'ezna hoga haala'n kay Quran o sunnah ki roshni mein iss baat kikoihaqeeqat nahin humarey haan amooman nikah raat ko bohut latehotahai aur dulhan ko ghar pohonchtey pohonchtey raat kay do,dha'eebaj jatey hain iss doran donon thak kar chuur ho chukey hoteyhainpehli raat donon thakawat, khauf, ghabraahat, nervousnessaurhichkichahat ka shikar hota hai, khusoosan agar mian biwipehleysey ek doosrey sey waqif na hun humarey haan aksar aisa hihota hailarki apna ghar chor kar naey ghar aur naey logon mein aatihaiusey khauf hota hai kay na janey susraal kay log kaiseyhongey,khawand ka ravaiyya kaisa hoga. Doosri taraf larkey ko kayhawaleysey nakaami ka khauf hota hai kay aayah woh mubashrat karsakey gaya nahin larki ko bhi mubashrat ki takleef ka khauf hotahai isskhauf aur tashweesh ki wajah sey aurat ki faraj ka dahaanatung hojata hai aur faraj kay ander chiknaahat ki kami ho jati hai,larkasamajhta hai kay agar iss ney pehli raat mubashrat na kii tolarkisamjhey gi shayad mian iss qabil nahin haala'n kay jawani meinharmard jismani le'haz sey normal aur jinsi amal ka ahel hotahaialbatta khauf aur zehni daba'u ki wajah sey ba'az auqaattanaunahin hota ya aen moqa per khatam ho jata hai jo kay bilkulfitriamar hai kyun kay khauf aur zehni daba'u tanau kay dushmanhain,le'haza iss surat e haal kay paesh e nazar pehli raat sex kozyadaehmiat hasil nahin honi chahiyie chuna'ncha pehli raatmubashrat nakarna donon kay liye mufeed hai.